Rehearsal Dinner

Welcome Party

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Our Wedding

Our Story

Our story began in the fall of 2022 at Ole Miss, where fate placed us in the same classroom. We barely spoke, just two strangers in a class full of people. It wasn’t until late spring of the following year that we reconnected as friends through sports—which, if you know us, is no surprise. A few months later, I transferred to Virginia Tech, while Banks closely followed by transferring to Appalachian State to play baseball and stay as close as he could to me—though he kept that detail to himself at the time. After some patience and persistence on his part, our relationship blossomed beyond friendship. From the start, our bond was natural, easy, and filled with laughter, as if we’d known each other forever. The long drives, late-night phone calls, and supporting each other from the stands became our new normal. When it came time to choose where to say “I do,” we wanted somewhere that felt like ours. We stumbled upon West Virginia, only to realize how perfect it was. My parents were born and raised in Wheeling, and much of my family still calls West Virginia home. Banks’ dad’s side, the Tolley family, is from southern West Virginia, near Beckley. Without even trying, we chose the ideal place to bring our story full circle—honoring our roots while starting this new chapter together.

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For men, this typically means a tuxedo with a black formal bowtie, black shoes, and a white dress shirt. A nice, dark colored suit is also suitable. For women, dark-colored formal evening gown or a dark, sophisticated longer cocktail dress is appropriate.

Please note the ceremony and reception are not within the same building. Please consider brining a jacket for the three minute shuttle between the two venues!

Tuxedo Rentals

The Greenbrier offers a tuxedo rental service (about $200, including alterations). If you’d like to rent a tuxedo, please notify The Greenbrier when booking so they can reserve a fitting and accommodate your needs.

Dress Code

Airports

The Greenbrier Valley Airport (LWB)* ~ 15 minutesRaleigh County Memorial Airport (BKW) ~60 minutesWest Virginia International Yeager Airport (CRW) ~75 minutesRoanoke-Blacksburg Regional Airport (ROA) ~90 minutes *Greenbrier offers complimentary shuttle services*

Stay at the venue with us! The Greenbrier offers a range of accommodations, from intimate one-bedroom rooms and suites to expansive multi-bedroom and bathroom suites. *Please call (844) 300-4392, this number has been assigned to work with our wedding guests to have the discounted room block rate.*

The Greenbrier

The Schoolhouse Hotel is a four minute drive from The Greenbrier. Located just off of main street next to the various shops and restaurants of White Sulphur Springs. *Please call (304) 536-0999 to book under our block, please tell them you are booking for the Tolley-Reed wedding in January 2027*

The Schoolhouse Hotel

The Home2Suites is located in the neighboring town of Lewisburg. It is about a 16 minute drive to The Greenbrier and nine minutes from the Greenbrier Valley Airport (LWB).

Home2 Suites by Hilton Lewisburg

The Hampton Inn is located in the neighboring town of Lewisburg. It is about a 14 minute drive to The Greenbrier and eight minutes from the Greenbrier Valley Airport (LWB).

Hampton Inn Lewisburg

The Fairfield by Marriott Inn &amp; Suites is located in the neighboring town of Lewisburg. It is about a 14 minute drive to The Greenbrier and eight minutes from the Greenbrier Valley Airport (LWB).

Fairfield by Marriott Inn & Suites Lewisburg

Please be aware that ride-share services (Uber, Lyft, etc.), can be limited as the town is very small. If we have enough people booking at The Schoolhouse Hotel who will be needing rides, we will likely get a shuttle to and from The Greenbrier.

Travel

Q + A

Please note that most activities will require you to make a reservation, so book ahead! Additionally, many services and restaurants add automatic gratuity, so be mindful not to double-tip.

The Greenbrier offers a variety of dining options, including Prime 44 West Steakhouse, The Forum for Italian cuisine, and the Main Dining Room. For a more casual vibe, enjoy the Pizza Shoppe, In Fusion, or Draper's Café. Please note most restaurants will require a reservation!

Restaurants

The Greenbrier boasts a variety of cocktail lounges and bars to suit every taste. 42 Below, Greenbrier Royale, and Twelve Oaks, are all located within the Casino Club. For bourbon lovers, Café Carleton offers tastings with a view overlooking the Casino. JJ’s Sports Lounge, located off Prime 44 West offers a more sporty, yet classy vibe.

Cocktail Lounges & Bars

The Greenbrier’s Casino offers a mix of table games, slots, and a lively atmosphere. Open late with multiple bar options, it is the likely spot to continue the after‑party following the conclusion of our reception!

Casino

The Greenbrier's spas, offer a variety of treatments including soothing massages, revitalizing facials, and body wraps. Studio G Hair Salon offers haircuts, styling, and beauty services.

Spas & Salons

Indoor Pickleball & Tennis

Tour The Greenbrier’s hidden Cold War-era Bunker, once designed to house government officials in the event of a national emergency. Learn about its rich history, the secretive construction, and the stories behind its purpose.

Bunker Tours

The Greenbrier’s Gun Club offers opportunities to try shooting sports in a safe, professional setting. Enjoy skeet shooting, archery, and more, all guided by expert instructors.

Gun Club

Bowling

Explore the resort’s iconic architecture, learn about its fascinating past, and uncover the stories behind its stunning interiors.

Lyndsey & Banks